From the website of Alcoholics Anonymous' General Service Office at www.aa.org:
The relative success of the A.A. program seems to be due to the fact that an alcoholic who no longer drinks has an exceptional faculty for "reaching" and helping an uncontrolled drinker.
In simplest form, the A.A. program operates when a recovered alcoholic passes along the story of his or her own problem drinking, describes the sobriety he or she has found in A.A., and invites the newcomer to join the informal Fellowship.
The heart of the suggested program of personal recovery is contained in Twelve Steps describing the experience of the earliest members of the Society:
1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Newcomers are not asked to accept or follow these Twelve Steps in their entirety if they feel unwilling or unable to do so.
They will usually be asked to keep an open mind, to attend meetings at which recovered alcoholics describe their personal experiences in achieving sobriety, and to read A.A. literature describing and interpreting the A.A. program.
A.A. members will usually emphasize to newcomers that only problem drinkers themselves, individually, can determine whether or not they are in fact alcoholics.
At the same time, it will be pointed out that all available medical testimony indicates that alcoholism is a progressive illness, that it cannot be cured in the ordinary sense of the term, but that it can be arrested through total abstinence from alcohol in any form.


Why bother to take the steps?
I took the steps because I wanted the "vital spiritual experience" described by Dr. Jung on page 27. A sudden spiritual experience (or a more gradual spiritual awakening) brings about the "entire psychic change" described in the Doctor's Opinion on page XXIX. Sudden or gradual, the result is the same; recovery from alcoholism.
Pages 99-100 say "Remind the prospect that his recovery is not dependent upon people. It is dependent upon his relationship with God."
Aha! "RELATIONSHIP with God." The relationship comes from prayer for knowledge of His will for US and the power to carry that out and meditation. To pray is to ask, to meditate is to listen--for the response--the answer. This two-way communication produces a RELATIONSHIP. It took me a while to understand that.
I have to remember that the Foreword to the First Edition (pXIII) says "We of Alcoholics Anonymous are more than one hundred men and women who have recovered from a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body. To show other alcoholics precisely how we have recovered in the main purpose of this book." I pay careful attention to the words: recovered, not recovering, and show...precisely how we have recovered." Now I see that the Big Book is an instruction manual. If I follow the instructions, I'll get the same results. Half measures and modifications will NOT produce recovery, half measures will produce something else. What I want is what they got: recovery. Like the ad says, "accept no substitutes."